So it’s nearly time to do June’s monthly roundup and I’m only just looking through photos from May to write this blog post! I always think we don’t do too much, but we do always seem to be busy and time is going quicker than ever. People have said time goes even quicker when the children are at school. Bella starts infants in September and I just can’t believe it can pass by any quicker. But I’ll be sure to let you know if miraculously it does. She does 21 hours at preschool, so maybe it’s already going as quick as it will?! Here we are now more than half way through this year and that means half way to another Christmas too! I’m sure we only just had the last one. You may think it’s a little early to mention this C word, but for my small online shop the buzz usually starts around September, so I’m already thinking about it!
I always think we haven’t done very much each month, but these blog roundups are a great way to see that, actually, we have! It’s nice to remember the lovely days out we have and look back through the photos reminiscing recent times. I usually sit and look through all my photos for the month I’m writing about to select the ones I want to use. This is great fun and some photos seem so long ago, but they are only a few weeks. I also flick through my planner to see what we got up to. I don’t know about you, but since becoming a parent and being so busy my days just blur into one big long day! I’m also super forgetful with things like trying to remember what I did two weeks ago! I pretty much just focus on the here and now, taking one day at a time and not thinking too much about yesterday as it’s gone and I’ll look at tomorrow, well, tomorrow! One day I’ll look back at these blog posts with fond memories of everything we did during these busy manic family days.
We finally did our kitchen this month WOOHOO! We’d bought new worktops, a sink, tap and tiles in JANUARY! The sides were real wood and so needed three coats of oil before we fitted them. Each coat takes 6 hours to dry. They’re so heavy (and one was 3m long) that both of us were needed to carry them in and out. We also obviously needed a dry day to do this. It basically took us until April to find free weekends and dry days to be able to oil them all. If we do a kitchen again I’d definitely buy pre-treated to save this hassle! Or build a veranda or something outside so we have shelter! Our kitchen is so much brighter and lighter now. You can read our ceramic sink disaster story here!
At the very start of the month I had a whole day to myself and visited a friend by train in Bristol. It was bliss! It was my first day out with a friend by myself, kid free too, since before I had Reuben, so well over one year! I had such a great time and chose to take the train rather than drive so I could have even more time to myself! I took my laptop and wrote blog posts on the train journeys. Perfect! I must do it more often.
I haven’t been doing very much friend visiting or play dates during the week at the moment as I’ve been so busy with work. I feel pretty much like I’ve been working nonstop for a couple of months now. Not helped by my employed morning job which starts at 5am, so I am literally working from the break of dawn (or so it feels!) until I close my eyes at night! I’ve been trying my best to take some nights off; Friday and Saturday, and sometimes Tuesday night. It’s hard to do this all the time though as any small business owner might relate. The best quote I’ve heard from someone running their own business is ‘I thought I always worked hard, until I ran my own business’ (Mike Pickles from Really Useful Products).
As well as attending a couple of kids birthday parties, both family and playschool friends, we also celebrated Bella’s birthday! Her 4th birthday was on 2nd June, but we decided to celebrate on the last May bank holiday as most people would be off work. It was also the day of the local Cheese Rolling which is a crazy event behind our home. We can see it from our house! We had a BBQ, which was touch and go with the weather forecast for a while during planning, but luckily we had a dry warm day. We have a 90 foot garden so it’s an ideal length for a garden party with lots of folk and children running around. I expect we’ll have a yearly BBQ or garden party as the kids loved it.
Bella had a super time and kept saying she wanted another birthday soon! She also loved the mini cupcakes I surprised her to from The Cakery in Gloucester. They make delicious homemade cakes (and more) with a huge free from range so I ordered no/low sugar so I could enjoy them too! Read my review of The Cakery here!
The last couple of days in May were the start of Bella’s final half term at preschool. I can’t believe how quickly it came round and knew after this half term she’d only have a few weeks left as a pre-schooler. Only just 4 years old and we’re planning her exciting start at big school.